A Single Man – You’re the Firth, the last, my everything!
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A Single Man – You’re the Firth, the last, my everything!

In honour of Pride Month, we celebrate with the resonating film, A Single Man. Sometimes awful things have their own beauty.The post A Single Man – You’re the Firth, the last, my everything! appeared first on For Your Reference.

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In honour of Pride Month, we celebrate with the resonating film, A Single Man. Sometimes awful things have their own beauty.

Stats

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Released: 2009
Director: Tom Ford
Novel by: Christopher Ishwerwood

Breakdown and Analysis

  • We’ve talked about this in a few epsidoes but we talk about how we are watching this through our frame of reference. We cannot truly know what it is like to be dealing with what George was going through but there were certainly themes of universal human hurt.
  • To not give your whole self to this film is a disservice to it’s beauty.
  • Oti shares what it was like in Kenya, culturally and religiously, for gay people.
  • George’s lecture of fear is fueled by causes. Whether the causes are real or not.
  • Huxley – After Many Summers dies the Swan
  • People that have to wear masks don’t realise how much of their true selves manifest on the surface.
  • Sometimes the beauty of life is always there but you need to be receptive of it
  • This movie builds to the most heartbreaking crescendo. Life is a Charly.
  • So beautifully stitched together in so many ways it is a very still movie. All you have is yourself.

Unrelated but vital points

  • Donations from our Patreon page will be used to pay for Oti’s Tom Ford. We haven’t launched one yet, so you have time to save.
  • We explain phrases by using other phrases. It’s kinda what we do. Welcome!
  • We are the Dean Winters of podcasts

For Your Reference

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KT’s picks

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Moonlight

Moonlight

2016 7.4

"Three time periods - young adolescence, mid-teen and young adult - in the life of black-American Chiron is presented. When a child, Chiron lives with his single, crack addict mother Paula in a crime ridden neighborhood in Miami. Chiron is a shy, withdrawn child largely due to his small size and being neglected by his mother, who is more concerned about getting her fixes and satisfying her carnal needs than taking care of him. Because of these issues, Chiron is bullied, the slurs hurled at him which he doesn't understand beyond knowing that they are meant to be hurtful. Besides his same aged Cuban-American friend Kevin, Chiron is given what little guidance he has in life from a neighborhood drug dealer named Juan, who can see that he is neglected, and Juan's caring girlfriend Teresa, whose home acts as a sanctuary away from the bullies and away from Paula's abuse. With this childhood as a foundation, Chiron may have a predetermined path in life, one that will only be magnified in terms of its problems when he reaches his difficult teen years when peer pressure affects what he and many of his peers do, unless he follows Juan's advice of truly making his own decisions for himself."

Pride and Prejudice

Pride and Prejudice

1995 8.8

"Jane Austen's classic novel about the prejudice that occurred between the 19th century classes and the pride which would keep lovers apart."

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Rafiki

Rafiki

2018 6.8

"Kena and Ziki long for something more. Despite the political rivalry between their families, the girls resist and remain close friends, supporting each other to pursue their dreams in a conservative society. When love blossoms between them, the two girls will be forced to choose between happiness and safety. Inspried by Monica Arac de Nyeko's "Jambula Tree", which chronicles a story of two girls in love in Uganda, "Rafiki" challenges deep rooted cynicism about same sex relationships among actors, crew, friends, and family in Kenya."

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December 25, 2020
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